Thursday, November 30, 2006

New Story of the Hare and Tortoise...

-- Santos, Oscar [santoso@hadeed.com.sa] wrote:

Sometimes we do forget about it. And somehow we are reminded.
Each one of us has his/her own strengths and weaknesses. And only thru teamwork that we can be most effective, consistently.
Regards,
Oscar

Note: forwarded message attached.


New Story of the Hare and Tortoise...
Once upon a time a tortoise and a hare had an argument about who was faster. They decided to settle the argument with a race. They agreed on a route and started off the race.

The hare shot ahead and ran briskly for some time. Then seeing that he was far ahead of the tortoise, he thought he'd sit under a tree for some time and relax before continuing the race.

He sat under the tree and soon fell asleep. The tortoise plodding on overtook him and soon finished the race, emerging as the undisputed champ.

The hare woke up and realized that he'd lost the race. The moral of the story is that slow and steady wins the race.

This is the version of the story that we've all grown up with.

But then recently, someone told me a more interesting version of this story. It continues.

The hare was disappointed at losing the race and he did some Defect Prevention (Root Cause Analysis). He realized that he'd lost the race only because he had been overconfident, careless and lax.

If he had not taken things for granted, there's no way the tortoise could have beaten him. So he challenged the tortoise to another race. The tortoise agreed.

This time, the hare went all out and ran without stopping from start to finish. He won by several miles.

The moral of the story?
Fast and consistent will always beat the slow and steady.

If you have two people in your organisation, one slow, methodical and reliable, and the other fast and still reliable at what he does, the fast and reliable chap will consistently climb the organisational ladder faster than the slow, methodical chap.

It's good to be slow and steady; but it's better to be fast and reliable.

But the story doesn't end here. The tortoise did some thinking this time, and realised that there's no way he can beat the hare in a race the way it was currently formatted.

He thought for a while, and then challenged the hare to another race, but on a slightly different route.

The hare agreed. They started off. In keeping with his self-made commitment to be consistently fast, the hare took off and ran at top speed until he came to a broad river.

The finishing line was a couple of kilometers on the other side of the river.

The hare sat there wondering what to do. In the meantime the tortoise trundled along, got into the river, swam to the opposite bank, continued walking and finished the race.

The moral of the story?
First identify your core competency and then change the playing field to suit your core competency.

In an organisation, if you are a good speaker, make sure you create opportunities to give presentations that enable the senior management to notice you.

If your strength is analysis, make sure you do some sort of research, make a report and send it upstairs. Working to your strengths will not only get you noticed but will also create opportunities for growth and advancement.

The story still hasn't ended.

The hare and the tortoise, by this time, had become pretty good friends and they did some thinking together. Both realised that the last race could have been run much better.

So they decided to do the last race again, but to run as a team this time.

They started off, and this time the hare carried the tortoise till the riverbank. There, the tortoise took over and swam across with the hare on his back.

On the opposite bank, the hare again carried the tortoise and they reached the finishing line together. They both felt a greater sense of satisfaction than they'd felt earlier.

The moral of the story?
It's good to be individually brilliant and to have strong core competencies; but unless you're able to work in a team and harness each other's core competencies, you'll always perform below par because there will always be situations at which you'll do poorly and someone else does well.

Teamwork is mainly about situational leadership, letting the person with the relevant core competency for a situation take leadership.

There are more lessons to be learnt from this story.

Note that neither the hare nor the tortoise gave up after failures. The hare decided to work harder and put in more effort after his failure.

The tortoise changed his strategy because he was already working as hard as he could. In life, when faced with failure, sometimes it is appropriate to work harder and put in more effort.

Sometimes it is appropriate to change strategy and try something different. And sometimes it is appropriate to do both.

The hare and the tortoise also learnt another vital lesson. When we stop competing against a rival and instead start competing against the situation, we perform far better.

When Roberto Goizueta took over as CEO of Coca-Cola in the 1980s, he was faced with intense competition from Pepsi that was eating into Coke's growth.

His executives were Pepsi-focussed and intent on increasing market share 0.1 per cent a time.

Goizueta decided to stop competing against Pepsi and instead compete against the situation of 0.1 per cent growth.

He asked his executives what was the average fluid intake of an American per day? The answer was 14 ounces. What was Coke's share of that? Two ounces. Goizueta said Coke needed a larger share of that market.

The competition wasn't Pepsi. It was the water, tea, coffee, milk and fruit juices that went into the remaining 12 ounces. The public should reach for a Coke whenever they felt like drinking something.

To this end, Coke put up vending machines at every street corner. Sales took a quantum jump and Pepsi has never quite caught up since.

To sum up, the story of the hare and tortoise teaches us many things.
Important lessons are:
*that fast and consistent will always beat slow and steady;
*work to your competencies;
*pooling resources and working as a team will always beat individual performers;
*never give up when faced with failure;
*and finally, compete against the situation. Not against a rival.

BE STRATEGIC!


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Wednesday, November 29, 2006

Life's bank account

---Ernie Dagsan [erndags@yahoo.com] wrote:

Note: forwarded message attached.

Life's Bank Account

92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today. His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.

After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.

As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on his window.

"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.

"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."

"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.

"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it "It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do.

Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away. Just for this time in my life.

Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.

So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
account of memories! . Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.

Pass this message to 7 people except me. You will receive a miracle
tomorrow.

Now, STOP! Did you hear what I just said. You WILL receive a miracle
tomorrow. So send it right now!

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Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Food as Medicine

--- Antonio Verdida [verdidaa@maaden.com.sa] wrote:

Note: forwarded message attached.

Food as Medicine

HEADACHE? EAT FISH!
Eat plenty of fish -- fish oil helps prevent headaches.
So does ginger, which reduces inflammation and pain.

HAVE FEVER? EAT YOGURT!
Eat lots of yogurt before pollen season.
Also-eat honey from your area (local region) daily.

TO PREVENT STROKE DRINK TEA!
Prevent buildup of fatty deposits on artery walls with regular doses of tea. (actually, tea suppresses my appetite and keeps the pounds from invading....Green tea is great for our immune system)!

INSOMNIA (CAN'T SLEEP?) HONEY!
Use honey as a tranquilizer and sedative.

ASTHMA? EAT ONIONS!!!!
Eating onions helps ease constriction of bronchial tubes. (when I was young, my mother would make onion packs to place on our chest, helped the respiratory ailments and actually made us breathe better).

ARTHRITIS? EAT FISH, TOO!!
Salmon, tuna, mackerel and sardines actually prevent arthritis. (fish has omega oils, good for our immune system)

UPSET STOMACH? BANANAS - GINGER!!!!!
Bananas will settle an upset stomach.
Ginger will cure morning sickness and nausea.

BLADDER INFECTION? DRINK CRANBERRY JUICE!!!!
High-acid cranberry juice controls harmful bacteria.

BONE PROBLEMS? EAT PINEAPPLE!!!
Bone fractures and osteoporosis can be prevented by the manganese in pineapple.

PREMENSTRUAL SYNDROME? EAT CORNFLAKES!!!!
Women can ward off the effects of PMS with cornflakes, which help reduce depression, anxiety and fatigue.

MEMORY PROBLEMS? EAT OYSTERS!
Oysters help improve your mental functioning by supplying much-needed zinc.

COLDS? EAT GARLIC!
Clear up that stuffy head with garlic. (remember, garlic lowers cholesterol, too.)

COUGHING? USE RED PEPPERS!!
A substance similar to that found in the cough syrups is found in hot red pepper. Use red (cayenne) pepper with caution-it can irritate your tummy.

BREAST CANCER? EAT Wheat, bran and cabbage
Helps to maintain estrogen at healthy levels.

LUNG CANCER? EAT DARK GREEN AND ORANGE AND VEGGIES!!!
A good antidote is beta carotene, a form of Vitamin A found in dark green and orange vegetables.

ULCERS? EAT CABBAGE ALSO!!!
Cabbage contains chemicals that help heal both gastric and duodenal ulcers.

DIARRHEA? EAT APPLES!
Grate an apple with its skin, let it turn brown and eat it to cure this condition. (Bananas are good for this ailment)

CLOGGED ARTERIES? EAT AVOCADO!
Mono unsaturated fat in avocados lowers cholesterol.

HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE? EAT CELERY AND OLIVE OIL!!!
Olive oil has been shown to lower blood pressure.
Celery contains a chemical that lowers pressure too.

BLOOD SUGAR IMBALANCE? EAT BROCCOLI AND PEANUTS!!!
The chromium in broccoli and peanuts helps regulate insulin and blood sugar.

Kiwi: Tiny but mighty. This is a good source of potassium, magnesium, Vitamin E &fiber. It's Vitamin C content is twice that of an orange.

Apple: An apple a day keeps the doctor away? Although an apple has a low Vitamin C content, it has antioxidants &flavonoids which enhances the activity of Vitamin C thereby helping to lower the risks of colon cancer, heart attack & stroke.

Strawberry: Protective fruit. Strawberries have the highest total antioxidant power among major fruits &protects the body from cancer causing, blood vessels clogging free radicals. (Actually, any berry is good for you..they're high in anti-oxidants and they actually keep us young.........blueberries are the best and very versatile in the health field........they get rid of all the free-radicals that invade our bodies)

Orange: Sweetest medicine. Taking 2 - 4 oranges a day may help keep colds away, lower cholesterol, prevent & dissolve kidney stones as well as lessen the risk of colon cancer.

Watermelon: Coolest Thirst Quencher. Composed of 92% water, it is also packed with a giant dose of glutathione which helps boost our immune system. They are also a key source of lycopene - the cancer fighting oxidant. Other nutrients found in watermelon are Vitamin C &Potassium. (watermelon also has natural substances [natural SPF sources] that keep our skin healthy, protecting our skin from those darn suv rays)

Guava &Papaya: Top awards for Vitamin C. They are the clear winners for their high Vitamin C content. Guava is also rich in fiber which helps prevent constipation.

Papaya is rich in carotene, this is good for your eyes. (also good for gas and indigestion)

Tomatoes are very good as a preventative measure for men, keeps those prostrate problems from invading their bodies

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Monday, November 27, 2006

The Woman

---Nona Ortiz [nonaortiz03@yahoo.com] wrote:

Note: forwarded message attached.

The Woman

When God created woman he was working late on the 6th day. An angel came by and said: “Why spend so much time on that one?”

And the Lord answered: “Have you seen all the specifications I have to meet to shape her ?"

“She must be washable, but not made of plastic, have more than 200 moving parts which all must be replaceable and she must function on all kinds of food, she must be able to embrace several kids at the same time, give a hug that can heal anything from a bruised knee to a broken heart and she must do all this with only two hands”.

The angel was impressed. “Just two hands....impossible!“ And this is the standard model?! “Too much work for one day....wait until tomorrow and then complete her“.

“I will not”, said the Lord. “I am so close to complete this creation, which will be the favourite of my heart”.

“She cures herself when sick and she can work 18 hours a day”.

The angel came nearer and touched the woman.

“But you have made her so soft, Lord” “She is soft", said the Lord, “But I have also made her strong. You can’t imagine what she can endure and overcome.“

“Can she think?" the angel asked. 

The Lord answered: “Not only can she think, she can reason and negotiate."

The angel touched the womans cheek.... “Lord, it seems this creation is leaking! You have put too many burdens on her.” 

“She is not leaking....it’s a tear” the lord corrected the angel.

“What’s it for?" asked the angel.

And the Lord said: “Tears are her way of expressing grief, her doubts, her love, her loneliness, her suffering and her pride.”

This made a big impression on the angel; “Lord, you are genius. You thought of everything. The woman is indeed marvellous!"

Indeed she is! Woman has strengths that amazes man. She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens.

She holds happiness, love and opinions. She smiles when feeling like screaming. She sings when she feels like crying, crys when she is happy and laughs when she is afraid.

She fights for what she belives in.Stand up against injustice. She doesn’t take “no” for an answer, when she can see a better solution. She gives herself so her family can thrive. She takes her friend to the doctor if she is afraid.

Her love is unconditional.

She cries when her kids are victorious. She is happy when her friends do well. She is glad when she hears of a birth or a wedding.

Her heart is broken when a next of kin or friend dies. But she finds the strength to get on with life.

She knows that a kiss and a hug can heal a broken heart.

There is only one thing wrong with her....She forgets what she is worth...

Pass this on to your lady friends to remind them how fantastic they are....pass it on to males you know. Sometimes they need to be reminded..!!!

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Sunday, November 26, 2006

Push for Life!

--- Edelio Serojales [dels_0517@yahoo.com] wrote:

Note: forwarded message attached.

Push for life!

A man was sleeping at night in his cabin when suddenly his room filled with light, and God appeared.

The Lord told the man he had work for him to do, and showed him a large rock in front of his cabin.

The Lord explained that the man was to push against the rock with all his might. So, this the man did, day after day.

For many years he toiled from sun up to sun down, his shoulders set squarely against the cold, massive surface of the unmoving rock, pushing with all of his might. Each night the man returned to his cabin sore and worn out, feeling that his whole day

Since the man was showing discouragement, the Adversary (Satan) decided to enter the picture by placing thoughts into the weary mind:

"You have been pushing against that rock for a long time, and it hasn't moved."

Thus, he gave the man the impression that the task was impossible and that he was a failure.

These thoughts discouraged and disheartened the man.

Satan said, "Why kill yourself over this? Just put in your time, giving just the minimum effort; and that will be good enough."

That's what the weary man planned to do, but decided to make it a matter of prayer and to take his troubled thoughts to the Lord.

"Lord," he said, “I have laboured long and hard in your service, putting all my strength to do that which you have asked Yet, after all this time, I have not even budged that rock by half a millimetre. What is wrong? Why am I failing?”

The Lord responded compassionately, "My friend, when I asked you to serve Me and you accepted, I told you that your task was to push against the rock with all of your strength, which you have done.”

“Never once did I mention to you that I expected you to move it. Your task was to push. And now you come to Me with your strength spent, thinking that you have failed. But, is that really so?”

Through opposition you have grown much, and your abilities now surpass that which you used to have .”

Now I, my friend, will move the rock.”

At times, when we hear a word from God, we tend to use our own intellect to decipher what He wants, when usually what God wants is just a simple obedience and faith in Him.

By all means, exercise the faith that moves mountains, but know that it is still God who moves mountains.

When everything seems to go wrong ... just P.U.S.H.!

When the job gets you down ... just P.U.S.H.!

When people don't react the way you think they should ... just P.U.S.H!

When your money is "gone" and the bills are due ... just P.U.S.H!

When people just don't understand you .... just P.U.S.H.


P = Pray
U = Until
S = Something
H = Happens

Pass this on to all the loved ones and friends who may need it; they may get it just in time. Truly, great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave and impossible to forget!

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Saturday, November 25, 2006

The Hidden Blessings..

--- Allan Cabigon [alcabs@ugsteelmill.com.sa] wrote:

"Hidden Blessings"

A young man was in his senior year, getting ready to graduate from college.

For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.

As his graduation day approached, the young man eagerly awaited signs that his father had purchased the car.

Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautifully wrapped gift box. Curious, but somewhat disappointed, the young man opened the box and found a lovely leather-bound Bible.

Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said, "With all your money, you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the book behind.

Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to visit him.

He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and had willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care of things.

When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search his father's important papers and saw the Bible, still new in the gift box, just as he had left it years ago. His eyes filled with tears as he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages.

As he flipped through the pages, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Bible. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words... PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not packaged as we expected?

Count your hidden blessings every day!

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Friday, November 24, 2006

My best friend...

-- Joey Perez [joey.perez@yahoo.com] wrote:

Note: forwarded message attached.

My Best Friend

Somewhere in Milaor, Camarines Sur, there lived a fourth grader boy who would follow this route to school everyday:

He has to cross the rugged plains and cross the dangerous highway where vehicles are recklessly driving to and from. Once passed this highway, the boy would take a short cut by passing by the Church every morning just to say Hi to God, and faithfully say his, "Magandang umaga po" in Bicol dialect.

He was faithfully being watched by a Priest who was happy to find innocence so uplifting in the morning, "Kamusta Andoy! Papasok ka na?" "Opo padre ... " he would flash his innocent grin, the priest would be touched.

He was so concerned that one day he talked to Andoy, "From school...", he advised "Do not cross the highway, you can pass through the Church and I can accompany you to the other side of the road ... that way I can see that you are home safe ...."

"Thank you father ..." "Why don't you go home ... do do you stay in this church right afterschool?" "I just want to say "Hi" to my friend, God," and the priest would leave the boy to spend time beside the altar, talking by himself, but he was hiding behind the altar to listen to what this boy has to say to his heavenly FATHER.

"You know my math exam was pretty bad today, but I did not cheat - although my seatmate is bullying me for notes ... I ate one cracker and drank my water, Itay had a bad season and all I can eat is this cracker.

Thank you for this! I saw a poor kitten who was hungry and I know how he feels so I gave my last cracker to him ... funny but I am not that hungry ... Look, this is my last pair of slippers ... I may have to walk barefooted next week ... you see this is about to be broken ... but it is okay ... at least I am still going to school ... some says we will have a hard season this month, some of my classmates have already stopped going to school ... please help them get to school again, please God? ... Oh, you know, Inay had hit me again, it is painful, but I know this pain will pass away, at least I still have a mother ... God, you want to see my bruises? I know you can heal them ...here... here and ....oh ... blood ... I guess you knew about this one huh?

Please don't be mad at Inay, she is just tired and she worries for the food in our table and my schooling that is why she hits us ... Oh, I think I am in love ... there's this pretty girl in my class, her name is Anita ... do you think she will like me? Anyway, at least I know you will always like me, I don't have to be anybody just to please you, you are my very best friend!

Hey your birthday is two days from now!!! Aren't you excited? I am! wait till you see, I have a gift for you .... but it is a surprise! I hope you will like it! Oooops, I have to go ..." then he stood up and calls out, "Padre, padre, I am finished talking to my friend ... you can accompany me to the other side of the road now" This routine happens everyday. Andoy never fails.

Father Agaton shares this every Sunday to the people in his church because he has not seen a very pure faith and trust in God, a very positive look at negative situations. One Christmas day, Father Agaton was sick so he could not make it in the Church, he was sent to the hospital.

The Church was left to 4 manangs who would chant the rosary in 1000 miles per hour, would not smile and would always find fault in what you do, they are also very well versed in cursing if you irritate them! They were kneeling, saying their kilometric rosary when Andoy, coming from his Christmas party, playfully dashed in, "Hello God!!!!! I " P----!!!!! (a curse) Bata ka!!!! Alam mo nang may nagdadasal!!!!!Alis!!!!!" Poor Andoy was so terrified, "where's Father Agaton? He is supposed to help me cross the street .... and to be able to cross the street I will have to pass by the back door of this church ... not only that, I have to greet Jesus-it is His birthday, I have a gift right here ...." just as he was about to get the gift out of his shirt, the manang pulled his shirt and threw him out of the church.

"Susmaryosep!!! (does a sign of the cross fervently) Alis kang bata ka, kung hindi matatamaan ka!!! So the boy had no choice but to cross the dangerous side of the road in front of the church. He crossed. A fast moving bus came in. There was a blind curve. The boy was protecting his gift inside his shirt, so he was not looking. There was so little time.Andoy died on the spot. A lot of people crowded the poor boy, the body of a lifeless young boy ...Suddenly, out of nowhere a tall man in pure white shirt and pants, a face so mild and gentle, but with eyes full of tears... He came and carried the boy in His arms, He was crying. Curious bystanders nudged the man in white, and asked, "excuse me sir, are you related to this child?

Do you know this child?" The man in white, His face mourning and in agony,lifted up and answered, "He was my bestfriend ... " was all he said.

He took the badly wrapped gift in the bloody chest of the lifeless boy, and placed it near His heart. He stood up and carried the boy away and they both disappeared in sight. The crowd was curious ... On Christmas Eve, Father Agaton learned of the shocking news.

He visited the house, and wanted to verify about the man in white. He consulted the parents of Andoy. "How did you know that your son died?"

"A man in white brought him here." sobbed the mother. "What did he say?" The father answered, "He did not say anything. He was mourning. We do not know him and yet he was very lonely at our son's death, as if he knew our son very well. But there was something peaceful and unexplainable about him. He gave me my son, and then he smiled peacefully. He rubbed my son's hair away from his face and kissed him on his forehead, then he whispered something ..." "What did he say?" "He said to my boy ..." thefather began, "Thank you for the gift ... I will see you soon ... you will be with me ..." and the father of the boy continued, "and you know for a while, it felt so wonderful... I cried, but I do not know why .... all I know is I cried in tears of joy ... I could not explain it father, but when that man left, something peaceful came over me, I felt a deep sense of love inside... I could not explain the joy in my heart, I knew my boy is in heaven now ...but ... tell me father, who is this man that my son talks to everyday in your church, you should know because you are always there... except on the time of his death ..."

Father Agaton suddenly felt the tears welling in his eyes, with trembling knees, he murmurred," ... He was talking to no one .... but ....GOD...." if you love this story, pls. pass this on to your friends...

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Thursday, November 23, 2006

Chicken Soup for the Beer Drinkers Soul...

-- Edwin Intong [eintong@uss.com] wrote:

Sometimes when I reflect back on all the beer I drink I feel ashamed. Then I look into the glass and think about the workers in the brewery and all of their hopes and dreams. If I didn't drink this beer, they might be out of work and their dreams would be shattered. Then I say to myself, "It is better that I drink this beer and let their dreams come true than be selfish and worry about my liver."

-- Jack Handy
I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day.

--Frank Sinatra
An intelligent man is sometimes forced to be drunk to spend time with his fools.

--Ernest Hemingway
A woman drove me to drink and I didn't even have the decency to thank her.

--W.C. Fields
When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading.

--Henny Youngman
24 hours in a day, 24 beers in a case. Coincidence? I think not!

--Stephen Wright
When we drink, we get drunk. When we get drunk, we fall asleep. When we fall asleep, we commit no sin. When we commit no sin, we go to heaven. Sooooo, let's all get drunk and go to heaven!

-- Brian O'Rourke
Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy.

--Benjamin Franklin
Without question, the greatest invention in the history of mankind is beer. Oh, I grant you that the wheel was also a fine invention, but the wheel does not go nearly as well with pizza.

--Dave Barry
Beer: Helping ugly people have sex since 400 B.C.

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Wednesday, November 22, 2006

The Emperor's Seeds

-- Pio Daigdigan [piogd@yahoo.com] wrote:

Note: forwarded message attached.

The Emperor's seeds

An emperor in the Far East was growing old and knew it was time to choose his successor. Instead of choosing one of his assistants or his children, he decided something different. He called young people in the kingdom together one day. He said, "It is time for me to step down and choose the next emperor. I have decided to choose one of you." The kids were shocked! But the emperor continued. "I am going to give each one of you a seed today. One very special seed. I want you to plant the seed, water it and come back here one year from today with what you have grown from this one seed. I will then judge the plants that you bring, and the one I choose will be the next emperor!"

One boy named Ling was there that day and he, like the others, received a seed. He went home and excitedly told his mother the story. She helped him get a pot and planting soil, and he planted the seed and watered it carefully. Every day he would water it and watch to see if it had grown.

After about three weeks, some of the other youths began to talk about their seeds and the plants that were beginning to grow.

Ling kept checking his seed, but nothing ever grew. Three weeks, 4 weeks, 5 weeks went by. Still nothing. By now, others were talking about their plants but Ling didn't have a plant, and he felt like a failure.

Six months went by--still nothing in Ling's pot. He just knew he had killed his seed. Everyone else had trees and tall plants, but he had nothing. Ling didn't say anything to his friends, however. He just kept waiting for his seed to grow.

A year finally went by and all the youths of the kingdom brought their plants to the emperor for inspection. Ling told his mother that he wasn't going to take an empty pot. But honest about what happened, he took his empty pot to the palace.

When Ling arrived, he was amazed at the variety of plants grown by the other youths. They were beautiful--in all shapes and sizes. Ling put his empty pot on the floor and many of the other kinds laughed at him. A few felt sorry for him and just said, "Hey nice try."

When the emperor arrived, he surveyed the room and greeted the young people. Ling just tried to hide in the back. "My, what great plants, trees and flowers you have grown," said the emperor. "Today, one of you will be appointed the next emperor!"

All of a sudden, the emperor spotted Ling at the back of the room with his empty pot. He ordered his guards to bring him to the front. Ling was terrified. "The emperor knows I'm a failure! Maybe he will have me killed!" When Ling got to the front, the Emperor asked his name. "My name is Ling," he replied. All the kids were laughing and making fun of him. The emperor asked everyone to quiet down. He looked at Ling, and then announced to the crowd, "Behold your new emperor! His name is Ling!"

Ling couldn't believe it. Ling couldn't even grow his seed. How could he be the new emperor? Then the emperor said, "One year ago today, I gave everyone here a seed. I told you to take the seed, plant it, water it, and bring it back to me today. But I gave you all boiled seeds which would not grow. All of you, except Ling, have brought me trees and plants and flowers. When you found that the seed would not grow, you substituted another seed for the one I gave you. Ling was the only one with the courage and honesty to bring me a pot with my seed in it. Therefore, he is the one who will be the new emperor!"

MORAL OF THE STORY

You sow what you reap.

If you plant honesty, You will reap trust
If you plant goodness, You will reap friends
If you plant humility, You will reap greatness
If you plant perseverance, You will reap victory
If you plant consideration, You will reap harmony
If you plant hard work, You will reap success
If you plant forgiveness, You will reap reconciliation
If you plant openness, You will reap intimacy
If you plant patience, You will reap improvements
If you plant faith, You will reap miracles

But If you plant dishonesty, You will reap distrust.
If you plant selfishness, You will reap loneliness
If you plant pride, You will reap destruction
If you plant envy, You will reap trouble
If you plant laziness, You will reap stagnation.
If you plant bitterness, You will reap isolation
If you plant greed, You will reap loss
If you plant gossip, You will reap enemies
If you plant worries, You will reap wrinkles
If you plant sin, You will reap guilt


So be careful what you plant now, It will determine what you will reap tomorrow. The seeds you now scatter, Will make life worse or better your life or the ones who will come after.

Yes, someday, you will enjoy the fruits, Or you will pay for the choices you plant today . One day we will enter the Kingdom of God as well, how should our plant look?

"If you tell me, I will listen. If you show me, I will see. If you let me experience, I will learn."

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Saudi Iron and Steel Company (Hadeed)... the Leading Producer and Marketer of Steel Products in the Middle East and North Africa...
You may visit http://www.hadeed.com.sa

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Common Beliefs Men Have About Women

--- Andy Lemence [op106@unicoil.com.sa] wrote:

Note: forwarded message attached.


COMMON BELIEFS MEN HAVE ABOUT WOMEN

Belief #1: SHE’LL NEVER BE SATISFIED.

Truth: Women are always looking for ways to make things better. Don’t take her suggestions as complaints or criticisms, but as her desire to make the relationship or situation the best that it can be.

Belief #2: A STRONG, CONFIDENT WOMAN DOESN’T NEED A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF HER.

Truth: Everyone loves to be taken care of and to feel needed. Even if a woman can fix things around the house or change the oil in her car, she will still ask for your help so she can feel your strength, support and protection. Don’t ever stop asking, “What can I do for you?” because it shows her that you care.

Belief #3: WOMEN ONLY WANT TO CONTROL MEN.

Truth: It’s not about control; it’s about love. When a woman sees a man hurting, struggling or overwhelmed, her goal is to help, not control. Let her give you a helping hand.

Belief #4: KEEPING A WOMAN REQUIRES A LOT OF HARD WORK, TIME AND MONEY.

Truth: A serious relationship requires time and effort to cultivate it. You shouldn’t look at it as a burden. Your wife or girlfriend will reciprocate the effort you put into it.

Belief #5: YOU CAN’T LIE TO WOMEN.

Truth: Women are extremely capable of picking up moods and attitudes and can easily read body language and facial expressions. Although you may think that you have
gotten away with a great lie, she is either letting it slide because she wants to keep the peace, or she is lying to herself because she’s afraid of the truth.

Belief #6: JEALOUSY AND POSSESSIVENESS ARE A PART OF BEING A WOMAN.

Truth: Women are protective of what belongs to them. They protect the things they value, especially when it comes to relationships. It’s not that she doesn’t trust you; she is guarding the relationship. You are too precious to her for her to allow anything bad to happen.

Belief #7: WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL.

Truth: Women don’t hide their feelings. They articulate what’s going on in their minds. There’s nothing wrong with emotions—we all have them. Being in touch with
their emotions causes women to be sensitive and caring, and that’s why men love them.

“PLEASE PASS IT ON TO YOUR LADY FRIENDS. GIVE THEM COURAGE TO HOLD ON”

“There are many fine women in the world; but you are the best of them all”. Proverbs 31:29

“PASS IT ON TO YOUR MAN. GIVE THEM A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF YOU”

“Her husband can trust her, and she will richly satisfy his needs.” Proverbs 31:11

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BHP UNICOIL is the first Saudi Company to manufacture pre-painted steel products in Saudi Arabia and the largest producer of pre-painted steel in the Middle East..
You may visit http://www.bhp.unicoil.net

Monday, November 20, 2006

10 Facts about sex...

--- Nestor Besas [nestor_besas@hadeed.com.sa] wrote:

Note: forwarded message attached.

10 Facts about sex...


Did you know that you can tell from the skin whether a
person is sexually active or not.

1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that
when woman make love they produce double amounts of the
hormone estrogen, which make hair shiny and skin smooth.

2. Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering
dermatitis, skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced
cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.

3. Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during
that romantic dinner.

4. Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It
stretches and tones up just about every muscles in the
body. It's more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps and you
don't need special sneakers!

5. Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases the
body endorphins into the bloodstream, producing a sense of
euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being.

6. The more sex you have, the more you will be offered. The
sexually active body gives off greater quantities of
chemicals called pheromones.These subtle sex perfumes
drive the opposite sex crazy!

7. Sex is the safest tranquiliser in the world. It is 10 times
more effective than Valium.

8. Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing
encourages saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers
the level of the acid that causes decay, preventing
plaque build-up.

9. Sex actually relieves headaches. A lovemaking session can
release the tension that restricts blood vessels in the brain.

10.A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose. Sex is a national
antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever.


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Saudi Iron and Steel Company (Hadeed)... the Leading Producer and Marketer of Steel Products in the Middle East and North Africa...
You may visit http://www.hadeed.com.sa

Sunday, November 19, 2006

You are so blessed ...

--- Leo Ligutom [ligutomls@gas.sabic.com]wrote:

>I thought of sharing small but beautiful notes..
>
>If you woke up this morning with more health
>than illness, you are more blessed than the
>million who won't survive the week.
>
>If you have never experienced the danger
>of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment,
>the agony of torture or the pangs of
>starvation, you are ahead of 20
>million people around the world.
>
>If you meet with your family meeting
>without fear of harassment, arrest,
>torture, or death, you are more
>blessed than almost three billion
>people in the world.
>
>If you have food in your refrigerator,
>clothes on your back, a roof over
>your head and a place to sleep,
>you are richer than 75% of this world.
>
>If you have money in the bank,in your
>wallet, and spare change in a dish
>someplace, you are among the
>top 8% of the world's wealthy.
>
>If your parents are still married and alive,
>you are very rare, especially in the
>United States.
>
>If you hold up your head with a smile
>on your face and are truly thankful,
>you are blessed because the majority can,
>but most do not.
>
>If you can hold someone's hand, hug them
>or even touch them on the shoulder,
>you are blessed because you can
>offer God's healing touch.
>
>If you can read this message,you are
>more blessed than over two billion
>people in the world that cannot
>read anything at all.
>
>You are so blessed in ways you may
>never even know.
>
>Blessings to you!!!
>
>This blessing will only keep working if
>it is continuously passed around.
>If you are a recipient of a blessing,
>keep the blessings working by being
>the source of blessing to other people.

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National Industrial Gas Co. was established in 1983 in Saudi Arabia....also a SABIC affiliate...
You may visit: http://www.gas.com.sa

Saturday, November 18, 2006

Young "Basureros" changed me...

-----Original Message-----
From: Antonio Maquindang [al_maq@yahoo.com]
Sent: Monday, October 30, 2006 3:45 PM
To: Arthur Acibar
Subject: [exNSC] FW: young "basureros" changed me

Note: forwarded message attached.

Very touching story..

Ever since it was diagnosed that I am having a posible heart enlargement in the last APE, I have exerted more effort to do physical exercises. I do jogging during week days and do long - ride mountain biking every Sunday. But this Sunday is a special Sunday to me. While I was on my way to the mountains of Busay hoping to strengtened my heart by this exercise, instead, I personally encountered a heart-breaking scene that changed me.

I already passed the Marco Polo Plaza ( formerly Cebu Plaza Hotel ) when I decided to stop to buy bananas at a small carenderia located along the road. I haven't taken any solid food that morning so I need fruits to have the needed energy to get to my destination - the mountain top. I almost done eating with the second banana when I noticed two children across the street busily searching the garbage area. "Basureros" I said to myselt and quickly turn my attention away from them to sip a small amount of water. I cared less for these kind of children actually; to make it straight, I do not like them, and I do not trust them evenmore. You see, several times I have been a victim to these kind of children who are pretending to be basureros looking for empty bottles and cans when in fact the 'plangganas', 'kalderos', and 'hinayhays' are their favorites. I remember one afternoon while I was watching a Mike Tyson fight when I noticed that the TV screen suddenly became blurred. I checked outside and saw two young basureros running away with my newly installed antenna. Hatred may be a little bit stronger word to describe my feeling towards these basureros, but I do not like them honestly ? not till I met these three children.

I was about to embark on my bike again when I heard one of the two children, a girl of about 7 or 8 of age saying aloud to the other , a 12-yr old boy , " kuya si dodong kuha-a kay nag-sige'g tan-aw sa mga nagkaon, mauwaw ta" , only then that I noticed a small boy standing near to me biting slightly his finger. He's a few inches shorter if compared to my 5 years old son ( but I knew later that he's also 5 yrs. Old). Though he did not asked for food to anyone in the carenderia, the way he looked at the customers who were eating , enough to convinced me that he intensely craving for it. The older boy then quickly crossed the street and gently pulled out the little one who politely obeyed. As I watched the two crossing back the street to the garbage area, I heard the tindera saying " Lo-oy kaayo nang mga bataa uy, mga buotan ra ba na". I learned further from the carenderia owner that the children are from a good family , both parents were working before , and that their father got a stroke 3 years ago and became partially paralized and their mother died of heart attack while their father was still confined at the hospital. The parents were still in their early forties when the catastrophe happened , and the children became basureros since then to meet their daily needs and for their father's medication.

Deeply moved by what I heard, I went to a nearby bakery and bought 20 pesos worth of bread and gave it to the children who initially refused including the little boy. " Sige lang noy, salamat na lang, magpalit lang nya mi kung mahalinan na mi" the young girl said to me. I explained that they need to go home because it started to rain . " Naanad na man mi ani " the girl answered again. Again, I explained that the rain can make them sick and if they'll become sick there's no one to take care of their father. Upon mentioning their father, they nodded and acccept the bread but I noticed that the older boy did not ate. When I asked him if he does not like the kind of bread I bought for them he smiled but as he's about to explain, the little girl, who is the more talker of them interrupted, " Domingo man gud ron ,noy, basta Sabado ug Domingo hapon ra siya mokaon kami ra ang mokaon ug pamahaw pero dili na pod mi mokaon inig hapon, si kuya ra. Pero basta Lunes ngadto sa Biyernes, kay klase man , si kuya ra sad ang seguro-on ug papamahaw, kami hapon na sad mi moka-on " Pero kung daghan mi ug halin mokaon mi tanan." she continued. "Ngano man diay ug mokaon mong tanan, bahinon ninyo bisan ug unsa ka gamay?" I countered. The young girl reasoned out that their father wanted that her older brother to come to school with full stomachs so he can easily catch up the teacher's lessons. "Inig ka trabaho ni kuya mo undang na man mi ug pamasura , first honor baya na siya " the little boy added proudly.

Maybe I was caught by surprise or I am just overly emotional that my tears started to fall. I then quickly turned my back from them to hide mytears and pretended to pick up my bike from the carenderia where I left it. I don't know how many seconds or minutes I spent just to compose myself; pretending again this time that I was mending by bike.

Finally I get on to my bike and approached the three children to bid goobye to them who in turn cast their grateful smiles at me. I then took a good look at all of them specially to the small boy and pat his head with a pinch in my heart. Though I believe that their positive look at life can easily change their present situation, there is one thing that they can never change; that is , their being motherless. That little boy can no longer taste the sweet embrace, care, and most of all , the love of his mother ? forever. Nobody can refill the empty gap created by that sudden and untimely death of their mother. Every big events that will happen to their lives will only remind them and make them wish of their mother's presence.

I reached to my pocket and handed to them my last 100 peso bill which I reserved for our department's bowling tournament. This time they refused strongly but I jokingly said to the girl " sumbagon teka ron kung di nimo dawaton" . She smiled as she extended her hand to take the money. " Salamat noy makapalit gyud me ron ug tambal ni papa " she uttered. I then turned to the small boy and though he's a few feet away from me, I still noticed that while his right hand was holding the half - filled sack , his left hand was holding a toy ? a worn out toy car. I waved my hands and said bye bye to him as I drove towards the mountains again. Did he just found the toy in the garbage area ? or the toy was originally his - when the misfortune did not took place yet? - I did not bother to ask. But one thing is crystal clear to me ? that inspite of the boy's abnormal life, he did not given up his childhood completely. I can sense it that way he hold and stare at his toy.

My meeting with that young basureros made me poorer by 100 pesos. But they changed me and made me more richer as to lessons of life are concerned. In them, I learned that life can changed suddenly and may caught me flat footed. In them, I've learned that even the darkest side of life, cannot change the beauty of one's heart. Those three children, who sometimes cannot eat three times a day, still able to hold on to what they believe was right. And what a contrast to most of us who are quick to point out to our misfortunes when caught with our mistakes. In them, I've learned to hope for things when things seem to go the other way.

Lastly, I know that God cares for them far more than I do. That though He allowed them to experience such a terrible life which our finite minds cannot comprehend, His unquestionable love will surely follow them through. And in God's own time they will win.

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Aluminium Bahrain B.S.C (Alba) .... the largest modern aluminium smelter in the world...
You may visit http://www.aluminiumbahrain.com

Friday, November 17, 2006

A Woman's Tears...

---Abigail Aldea [gailnov2004@yahoo.com] wrote:

>A Woman"s Tears...
>
>A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you
>crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him.
>
>"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just
>hugged him and said, "And you never will."
>
>Later the little boy asked his father, "Why
>does mother seem to cry for no reason?"
>
>"All women cry for no reason," was all his
>Dad could say.
>
>The little boy grew up and became a man, still
>wondering why women cry.
>
>Finally he put in a call to God. When God got
>on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women
>cry so easily?"
>
>God said:
>
>"When I made the woman she had to be special.
>
>I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the
>weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.
>
>I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth
>and the rejection that many times comes from her
>children.
>
>I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going
>when everyone else gives up, and take care of her
>family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
>
>I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under
>any and all circumstances, even when her child has
>hurt her very badly.
>
>I gave her strength to carry her husband through his
>faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.
>
>I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never
>hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths
>and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
>
>And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers
>exclusively to use whenever it is needed."
>
>"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman
>is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she
>carries, or the way she combs her hair.
>
>The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes,
>because that is the doorway to her heart - the
>place where love resides."
>
>Please send this to five beautiful women and five
>understanding men you know today. If you do,
>something good will happen - You will boost
>another woman's self-esteem!
>
>You can also send this to men who would really
>like to know the value of a woman and
>why she is so different from others.

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Global Steel Philippines, Inc. is the leading manufacturer and principal supplier of flat products in the Philippines and other ASEAN markets....
You may visit http://www.globalsteelphil.com/

Thursday, November 16, 2006

About Relationships!

---Leo Pilares [LPilares@bridgepointhealth.ca] wrote:

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".


NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.


CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.


NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..


RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.


PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?" Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..


BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

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Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Live Simply

--- Ronald Fookson [fookson@gmail.com] wrote:

Note: forwarded message attached.

Live Simply
by Bo Sanchez

I remember that day, when I was in Grade 4, the inevitable "passage of manhood" happened as a few classmates of mine started wearing long pants. Suddenly, they looked so mature, so grown-up, so guapo-while all of us who wore the uniform khaki shorts were so Totoy.

I pressed Mom and Dad to buy me a pair, but they kept on saying, "later, Bo." The following year, when I was in Grade 5, I was the only guy wearing shorts. It was totally humiliating.

In Grade 6, I was the only guy wearing a bikini. That's what my classmates called my shorts, as I had already outgrown them.

Believe me, I have never again been so sexy in my life.

Finally, on Graduation Day, I wept with pure joy when Mom gave my very own pair of pants. Oh, I did not care if the fold at the bottom of the pants was 12 inches long, reaching to my knees ("so that I can adjust it as you get taller," my mother explained). To me, they were the most beautiful pair of long pants in the world.
But ironically, after a while, the thrill faded away. Because I started wanting to wear jeans. "Mom, everyone has at least one pair!" I pleaded.

When she bought me one after a few years of begging, I soared to cloud nine and romped off with it like a prince. I thought my happiness would never end, until my High School classmates told me that their jeans were Levi's while mine were Ludy's.
Believe me, I felt miserable as a kid.

But now that I'm old, I thank God for that misery (and I thank God for my wise parents.)

You see, wearing Ludy's has now become my lifestyle. And it is immensely satisfying to live simply!

Let me explain.

People think that I'm crazy for not wanting nice stuff, for wearing crummy shoes and clothes, for not shopping for the finer things in life. For not even wanting to own a car, or a disk player, or even a nicer watch. People ask me, "why do you have so few desires in your life now?"

The answer comes from my bikini experience: I've realized that no human desire ever quits on you. We just keep on wanting more and more stuff. Nothing ever satisfies.
Nothing, that is, except one: a desire for God.

Today, my desires are very few and very simple. But I wish they'd get fewer still.
Until only one remains.

And that, my friend, will be purest joy.

Try it.

Missionaries who vow poverty leave their possessions behind to go to a foreign land, witness the blessings of living without possessions. Many Priests and Sisters who vow obedience and commit themselves to serve one another and to serve the poor, witness the blessings of being a servant. Finally, men and women who promise celibacy and offer to give up having their own families with the hope of belonging to all families, witness the blessings of being childless. In challenging us to bless events that crippled my wohl (?) patients and many in the old testament, the vows challenge us to heal memories.....(by Dennis Linn and Mathew Linn in healing life's hurts.)


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You may visit http://www.hadeed.com.sa

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Time Never Goes Back...

--- "Froilan D. Castillo" [castillofd@kjo.com.sa] wrote:

>LIFE
>
>Once upon a time, there was a teacher and his student
>lying down under a big tree near a big grass area.
>Then, suddenly, the student asked the teacher.
>
>Student : Teacher, I'm confused, how can we find our
>soul-mate? Can you please help me?
>
>Teacher: (Silent for few second, then he answer) Well,
>it's a pretty hard and easy question.
>
>Student: (Thinking hard) Huh???
>
>Teacher: Look on that way, there are a lot of grass
>there, why don't you walk there but please never walk
> backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try
> to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me.
>But just one.
>
>Student: Well, ok then... wait for me... (walked straight
>ahead to the grass field). A few minutes later...
>
>Student: I'm back.
>
>Teacher: Em, well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand.
>
>Student: On my journey, I found few beautiful grass,
>but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't
>pick it up. But I didn't realize that I'm at the end of the field,
>and I hadn't picked up any. Cause you told me not to go
>back, so I didn't go back.
>
>Teacher: That's what happened in real life.
>
>What is the message of this story?
>* Grass - is people around you
>* Beautiful Grass - is people that attract you
>* Grass Field - is time
>
>In looking for your soulmate, please don't always
>compare and hope that there will be a better one.
>By doing that, you'll waste your lifetime, cause remember
>"Time Never Goes Back".
>
>It applies the same in finding your ideal life partner, your
>suitable career or business, therefore the morale is LOVE
>and grab hold of the opportunity that you have now, don't
>waste time!
>
>Remember that... ~There Can Be Only One~
>
>Be grateful for what you have in life, don't take anything
>for granted, because once you regret later on, there is no
>turning back.
>
>
>Life isn't all that... it's all about you.

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Monday, November 13, 2006

A Guide to Life!

--- Vivien John Reyes [vjreyes@bechtel.com] wrote:

Ronald,
I would appreciate it if you will share this message to our friends.
Vivien R.

Note: forwarded message attached.
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A GUIDE TO LIFE! and list to live by

The most powerful force in life… LOVE!
The greatest asset… FAITH!
The most powerful channel of communication… PRAYER!
The most important thing in life… THE POWER OF GOD!
The greatest joy… GIVING!

The worst thing to be without… HOPE!
The most destructive habit… WORRY!
The world’s most incredible computer… THE BRAIN!
The greatest loss… THE LOSS OF SELF-RESPECT!
The greatest natural resource… YOUTH!

The ugliest personality trait … SELFISHNESS!
The greatest problem to overcome… FEAR!
The most beautiful attire… A SMILE!
The most crippling disease… EXCUSES!
The most dangerous pariah … GOSSIP!
The two most power-filled words… I CAN!

The most worthless emotion… SELF-PITY!
The greatest “shot in the arm”… ENCOURAGEMENT!
The most effective sleeping pill… PEACE OF MIND!
The most prized possession… INTEGRITY!
The most satisfying work… HELPING OTHERS!

And the greatest attitude… GRATITUDE!

Gratitude unfolds the goodness of life.
It turns what we have into enough, and more.

It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a
meal into a feast, a house into a home.

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.


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Saturday, November 11, 2006

The Consultant

--- edwin.s.semilla@fairchildsemi.com wrote:

A shepherd was herding his flock in a remote pasture when suddenly a brand-new BMW advanced out of a dust cloud toward him. The driver, a young man in a Brioni suit, Gucci shoes, Ray Ban sunglasses, and YSL tie, leans out the window and asks the shepherd: "If I tell you exactly how many sheep you have in your flock, will you give me one?"

The shepherd looks at the man, obviously a yuppie, then looks at his peacefully grazing flock and calmly answers, "Sure. Why not?"



The yuppie parks his car, whips out his Dell notebook computer, connects it to his AT&T cell phone, surfs to a NASA page on the Internet, where he calls up a GPS satellite navigation system to get an exact fix on his loc ation, which he then feeds to another NASA satellite that scans the area in an ultra-high-resolution photo. Then the young man opens the digital photo in Adobe Photoshop and exports it to an image processing facility in Hamburg, Germany.

Within seconds, he receives an email on his Palm Pilot that the image has been processed and the data stored. He then accesses a MS-SQL database through an ODBC connected Excel spreadsheet with hundreds of complex formulas. He uploads all of this data via an email on his Blackberry and, after a few minutes, receives a response.

Finally, he prints out a full-color, 150 page report on his hi-tech miniaturized HP LaserJet printer and finally turns to the shepherd and says: "You have exactly 1586 sheep."

"That's right. Well, I guess you can take one of my sheep" says the shepherd. He watches the young man select one of the animals and looks on amused as the young man stuffs it into the trunk of his car.

Then the shepherd says to the young man: "Hey, if I can tell you exactly what your business is, will you give me back my sheep?" The young man thinks about it for a second and then says, "Okay, why not?"

"You're a consultant." says the shepherd. "Wow! That's correct," says the yuppie, "but how did you guess that?" "No guessing required." answered the shepherd. "You showed up here even though nobody called you; you want to get paid for an answer I already knew; to a question I never asked; and you don't know crap about my business...

Now give me back my dog."

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Friday, November 10, 2006

Piox Daigdigan Birthday October 2006


Birthday celebration of Pio Daigdigan ... the king scorpion of the desert!
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Thursday, November 09, 2006

The ExNSC Blog

The ExNSC Blog is the compilation of old emails and photo from our fellow ExNSC colleagues around the world.. you may send email to exnscme@yahoo.com if you wish to post your emails or photo in the net.... Have a nice day!